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The Wounded Healer
by Lori Shen
Lately I have seen a
recurring theme in my practice, and that is of The
Wounded Healer. Psychologist Carl Jung used this term to
describe an archetypical dynamic of a phenomenon that
can take place in the relationship between analyst and
patient. However, I prefer the astrological use of this
term. In Astrology, the planet Chiron is considered “the
wounded healer” and its significance is simply that we
all have an area in our lives where we have been
wounded, generally in childhood. From this pain we have
the opportunity to gain our greatest wisdom, learning
and healing. Then we have the opportunity to go out in
the world and become a teacher and a healer for others.
It’s interesting to get your astrological chart read and
find out where Chiron sits in your chart, and what you
can learn from it. Most of us, however, are very
familiar with our deepest wound. How each of us moves
through that wound can make a huge impact in our lives.
Reflecting on our lives
spurs us to realize some of the biggest personal growth
we can have, especially when we delve into some of the
tougher issues. Many of us resist “going there” because
we believe it will be too painful, that it will bring up
feelings of shame, embarrassment, guilt or fear.
However, taking the time to “go there”, even if only for
a little while, can help release the energetic charge
out of the issue.
When we go inside and look at ourselves without
judgment, using our stories only as information for
learning, we allow ourselves freedom to learn valuable
lessons which can begin to free us from our wounds. Thus
begins the cycle of healing on all levels… mentally,
physically, emotionally and spiritually. From an energy
medicine point of view, when we hold secrets and wounds
in our bodies, it eats at us constantly and can manifest
in many ways. When we talk or write about our wounds,
and subsequently learn from them, we are moving that
energy out of our bodies and our energy field, thereby
cleansing and healing our spirit.
With spring upon us, it is
a time for new beginnings, shedding layers, and being
lighter. I would like to challenge you to “go there”.
What positive lessons has that wound brought you? Maybe
it has taught you about your own inner strength. Maybe
it made you a better parent, or more compassionate
toward others. Maybe you have become an advocate,
teacher, or healer. Whatever it is, honor and nurture
that part of yourself and be open to the wonderful
healing wisdom that your wounded healer has to offer
you.
One last thing, if it feels too big for you to handle on
your own, by all means please seek out the help of a
trusted advocate. We were not put here on Earth to do
everything on our own. Allow people to help you when you
need it. Great strength of character and authenticity
comes from vulnerability and truth. |
